Your Woman Do Not Wish to Be Number One

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Gentlemen, we all love our women; there is no denying that fact. We cherish and love our women; we move metaphorical mountains for the women we love. They are the air that we breathe; they are everything that gives us meaning. 

But what if I tell you that doing so would make them love you less? What if I tell you that substituting purpose with intimacy would make you less of a man? 

Imagine an asteroid is about to hit the Earth. For some reason, the government chooses to send you to space to blast the asteroid and knock it off orbit. It is risky, with a low chance of success. Your woman cries and begs you not to go, fearing for your life and with reason. 

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Regardless, you walked out that door to come face to face with your destiny. Your woman watches you as you disappear into the horizon, filled with sorrow but with pride.

She fears for your life, and she wants you to listen to her. But what if you told her, “I changed my mind, I do not want to go” how do you think she would react?

I am not telling you to never listen to your woman. I am also not telling you to place little importance on your woman. What I am trying to say is never substitute your purpose with intimacy. If you made intimacy the most significant thing in your life and neglect your mission, she could not trust you. 

If you rely on her for your happiness, she will become smothered by your clinginess and neediness. She may never admit this, but what she wants is for you to dedicate yourself to your highest purpose.

If you are not living your purpose, your kids will challenge you, and your friends will take advantage of you. Your woman would not expect much from you. 

She wants you to align yourself to your purpose and feel your most profound truth. That way, she may not always like your choices, but she will love you still. She will love you for having the courage to live your purpose. She is significant, but she is not the center of your universe, and your happiness does not rely solely upon her.

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3 thoughts on “Your Woman Do Not Wish to Be Number One

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  1. This is an absolutely fantastic post, Mr. A! As a married woman myself, I can say with certainty that nothing makes me more happy and more proud than watching my husband was his team. Matt always wanted to become.a team leader, and so when he got his qualifications recently, I was overjoyed. Even if I felt anxious about him going back to the office after lockdown, I accepted it because it is his work. You are so right about clingy men, too. Take it from someone who dated one for a short while, it gets boring real fast!

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    1. Thank you! I know, the same thing with my daughter. I told her that I need to find work soon by she worries that she would be left alone. I assured her that I’m trying to find a work from home kind of arrangement so that I could still take care of her.

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      1. It is very difficult, and it’s certain to cause her some anxiety. I was always a very clingy child but I’m sure that if and when she gets to taste independence thrn sooner or later, she won’t be able to wait for you to go to work. For me, my parents being out of the house meant that I had free roam of the TV remote!


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