Choose A Woman Who Chooses You

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The soil of a man’s heart is stonier; he grows what he can and tends it. If a man desires a woman who does not fancy him, he cannot succeed. His yearning will impair his relationship, and his woman is unable to believe in him. He must figure out if she indeed wants him or not. If she does not, he should stop seeking her and deal with the pain alone.

When my relationship with L ended, it did not end as any normal relationship would. For nearly a year, we have been hooking up, meeting at least every month or so. I keep on answering yes, hoping to rekindle our relationship, and I was miserable. Our secret liaison finally ended when I answered no for the first time. She was asking me to met her one day, and I was busy with my kid. Again, I choose to be a dad to my daughter than to be with her. 

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That was the time that I got the news that she is dating someone new. 

If you find yourself in a situation where you desire a woman, you have to ask yourself and your friends. You must consult your values and those close to you and ask them for their integrity. Ask them if this woman wants to be with you.

You are merely punishing yourself when you desire to be with a woman more than she wants to be with you. You will smother her, and she will need her space. She will need the freedom to pursue her direction, and she will reject your clinginess.

You must figure out if she is challenging you or genuinely has no desire to be with you. It is the reason why you have to consult your values and your friends. If she is testing you, then do everything you can and rise to the occasion. But if it turns out that you do not spark her interest, then it is much better to move on and work on your hurt. The relationship would not work even if you put on the effort. 

The soil of a man’s heart is stonier; he grows what he can and tends to it. He wishes for a woman who chooses him.

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