Your Attraction Is Inevitable

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Your attraction is inevitable as the rising of the sun. Yet, for some reason, most men hide their attraction to women on a day to day basis. Some men lack the mastery of themselves and their attraction resulting in abuse. Then some emasculate themselves to make their appeal to women.

Please read Flbeachlife’s post about game gurus and pimps, this is a man who knows what he’s talking about. Their blog is R-18, but he has a great insight towards masculinity that is worth the read.

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An exceptional woman can fill your already delightful existence with even more meaning. Take note of the word delightful, because if you don’t feel like that, then don’t bother looking for women. You are only trying to fill a gaping void in your existence with women, you are heading for a lot of heartaches if you do.

Much like life, there are two ways to deal with your attraction, the foolish way, and the wise way. You see, “attraction” is much like a magnet. It is all about polarity, hence, it is called “attraction”. Masculine men are attracted to feminine women. Feminine men are attracted to masculine women. Opposites attract, but not only any other opposites, but it also has to be a complementary opposite.

I was talking to a friend the other day, and I told her that for some weird reason I’m attracted to snub-nosed women. For a Filipino blessed with a rather pointy nose, I find a certain allure towards snub-nosed women. Lucky for me there is no shortage of those here in the Philippines. Most of my exes, even Pancake have that certain shape when it comes to noses.

But why do some men feel ashamed of their attraction towards women?

Your attraction is not only natural but it is also healthy. It is natural as the flow of electricity in a battery, as natural as the opposite poles of the Earth. If you deny your attraction, then you are denying your masculine essence. If you reject any form of attraction (not only sexual) then you disavow your masculine core. You are negating it instead of being at home with it.

Your attitude towards women is a reflection of how you see yourself. If you abuse yourself then you are abusive towards the feminine. But if you are positive about your masculinity then you are positive about the feminine. You are aware of the intricacies of attraction and accept it. You will ride the surf, regardless of the height of the waves.

If you can learn to accept your masculinity. The masculinity many women desire in their men, without abusing it and harming her, you will find a similar loyalty and eagerness to please from the woman in your life.

Flbeachlife, “Game Gurus” Have Nothing On These Guys

It still amazes me how many men still result in all sorts of gimmick to appeal to women. Instead of rejecting your attraction, let it inspire you. The desire a woman arouses in you is already a blessing in itself. You are a man, whose life is a constant celebration and challenge of his manhood.

Let your attraction inspire you to be the best man you can be. Let her radiance inspire you to embrace your masculine core, embrace life. Let your attraction guide you to the truth, your truth.

Believe me, I should know. This blog is the product of my search for my truth. The younger me is a lot stupider than who I am now. Regardless if you agree or not, I have wisened up due to experience and this blog is the result of that. Work on being a man and everything else will fall into place. It’s not going to be easy but it is the only way.

The next time you find yourself attracted to a woman, do not be ashamed. Relax in the thrill of your attraction, relax in the radiance that emanates from her. Do not resist but instead live in the moment.

Before we end our topic, I would like to thank my friends for their support. To tell you the truth, I can’t thank you enough and I will not grow tired of thanking you. It might not appear like it but I’m having the toughest challenge of my life so far. You have been a pillar of strength and the source of my inspiration. I will forever hold you in my heart. Maraming salamat at mahal ko kayong lahat!

To courage, freedom, and attraction!

“I was always attracted not by some quantifiable, external beauty, but by something deep down, something absolute. Just as some people have a secret love for rainstorms, earthquakes, or blackouts, I liked that certain undefinable something directed my way by members of the opposite sex. For want of a better word, call it magnetism. Like it or not, it’s a kind of power that snares people and reels them in.”
― Haruki Murakami, South of the Border, West of the Sun

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  1. Great post. I’m saddened to hear of your situation. Sending on the support I can. I left my work almost 8 years ago, called to live on faith and commit fully to my work for the planet. I would be fully homeless if it wasn’t for donations from friends.

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      1. Yes, Mr. A, I am grateful especially for my spiritual work partner who has really bailed me out and kept me housed.

        Best wishes in your fund raising and keeping your relationship with your daughter!



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