Mr. A Answers a Few Questions From Patreon

Greetings Barbarians! Long days and pleasant nights!

I got a special treat for you today! In case you haven’t noticed, I make money by writing from Patreon. And if it wasn’t for the fundraiser, I’d spend my time promoting my Patreon. But what is Patreon? It is a platform for content creators to get paid every month for doing what they enjoy, creating content. To be honest, I prefer Patreon as it allows me to give something back instead of asking for donations. But we all know that we can’t put all our eggs in one basket. You’ve got to diversify your portfolio. 

Part of having a Patreon page is setting goals like reaching a certain amount or number of Patrons. My Patreon goal was to do a special collaboration with one lucky patron when I reach 10 Patrons. And whaddya know, I’ve recently got my 10th Patron! 

So, to commemorate such a milestone, I want to share with you some of our Q&A on Patreon! Who knows, it might entice you to sign up! I’d also announce the lucky Patron with whom I will collaborate with at the end of the post, so stay tuned. 

I would like to know about your favorite music and bands or groups, and what you like about them.

I love talking about music! I used to be a musician in my younger years along with friends, Niño, and Goyong. Back then, we covered the Chaos A.D. and Roots era Sepultura and a few original songs. I’m stoked that there’s a new Benediction song, it was a ripper with a traditional death metal sound. My musical taste varies, I love death metal but I outgrew the poser mentality. Now, I enjoy other forms of music like Britney and Taylor without feeling ashamed of myself. It could be a bit unnerving to see a 34 yr old man in a Dying Fetus t-shirt singing Britney’s Sometimes or Taylor’s Bad Blood. For my Favorite band, hands down would be At The Gates, I love the 90’s Swedish death metal sound. Slaughter of the Soul is my favorite album. The thing with metalheads is that we have a certain kind of loyalty to a band. It’s not like we listen to Slayer’s Reign In Blood one summer, and never again after that. Slayer released Reign in Blood the year I was born and I still listen to it until now. The albums I’ve listened to lately:

  • Devouring Radiant Light by Skeletonwitch (because Skelentonwitch rules!!!)
  • Permission to Land by The Darkness (I love their take on the post 80’s hair metal and Love is Only a Feeling rocks!)
  • Balls Out by Steel Panther (I love satirical sleazy sex metal!)
  • Back in Black by AC/DC (does this still needs any explanation)
  • Clayman by In Flames (I miss the old In Flames)
  • Slaughter of the Soul (of course, it’s my favorite album of all time)

Stuff that I’m currently listening:

  • Emotions by Destiny’s Child

What happened to your wife? 

So, about my wife. It didn’t work out. I mean, she has a new family now.

You know the story, two people falling in and out of love. The funny thing was, it was just a year of marriage before we got separated. I was still seeing her though and still fucked a few times, unknown to me that she was dating her now-husband. Gah, what’s the deal with me and post-break-up sex. It’s driving me nuts. 

Before we continue, please check out my fundraiser. We are about to lose our house in two months, more or less. I know this isn’t much, but if you donate, I will promote whatever you want in this blog and my social media platforms. I would also take on any request if you have any, if I could do it, then consider it done. I know it’s not much, but I am willing to work hard for it. So please, check out my fundraiser.

In case you are having doubts, here are a few words from my friends.

If you believe that everything should be earned through hard work, you could subscribe to my Patreon page. You could get access to exclusive content you can’t get anywhere else. Take part in Q&A and polls, you get to decide what content you want me to make. Make requests and get included in the credit section of my post. 

Please check out my Patreon page for more details.

If you are not interested in my content, you could also hire me as a proofreader in Fiverr. I started a gig on Fiverr as proofreader and editor, and I’m planning to add more gigs along the way. If you got any suggestions for the kind of extra work you need, please let me know in the comment section. Please check out my Fiverr gig for more details.

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Now, back to the Q&A…

When did you start your blog and why?

Hmmm… after my separation, I was diagnosed with clinical depression and General Anxiety Disorder. I’ve been writing in a journal for therapy.

An ex (the one after my daughter’s mom) urged me to blog but never had anything great to write about. After we broke up, I started blogging about the things that I should have done or ways to improve what happened.

The younger me is a lot more stupid than what I have become now. So, in a way, all those heartbreaks are a blessing.

If you had the opportunity to move to a different country where would that be and why?

Funny enough, there have been talks within the family about asking my brother about migrating to Canada. I’d love to stay here in the Philippines but if an opportunity would be given to me to go there, I’d go in a heartbeat.

Do you like wearing ties? If yes, do you have any favorites?

Gah, you saw the IG photo!!! I hate wearing a necktie and that time I was applying for a teaching job and I was taking photos to send them. My favorite depends on what I’m wearing.

What kind of gentlemanly gifts do you enjoy?

I love all sorts of gifts as long as it is given with good intentions. I love getting books, fine cigars, a fountain pen, or a pocket knife.

If you were falsely accused of a crime, how would you adapt to prison life?

This could happen, not to think so is so naive. Bad things happened even to the best of people. Get as big as you can (jailhouse strong), read books about human anatomy, read Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power, and Machiavelli’s The Prince. If people think civilian life is tough, they should think about prison life.

Now, for the moment you’ve all been waiting for! Who’s going to be the lucky patron? 

Congratulations to Gabrielle! I’m already excited about our collaboration! I’ll send you an email tomorrow to pitch in ideas with you! Again, congratulations and thank you so much for the support. This wouldn’t be possible without you!

I would also like to thank the following people for supporting me and this blog. To be honest, I don’t know what I would do without you. I can’t find the words to say how much you all mean to me. Maraming salamat at mahal ko kayo!

Before I end this post, please check out my fundraiser. Any donations would help me one step closer to my goal. Please don’t let me go homeless again, don’t let me lose my kid, for the sake of everything good in the world.

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    1. It’s still not clear, and I still haven’t talk to my brother about this. Being a solo dad, this kind of decision is a bit harder. As much as I wanted to, I can’t leave a daughter behind, I can’t separate my kid from her mom either.

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    1. Gah, I hate wearing ties. I’m more of a 3 buttons open kind of guy. Plus, I have a weird body proportions and most of my clothes have to be tailored. I’m a size small but I have a wide neck so I can’t button up the topmost button of most shirt. And that don’t look good when wearing a tie. =)

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  1. Congrats on your Patreon! It seems you are doing well! I’ve been busting my ass putting out content, pretty much this entire year. I haven’t been able to grow there as an artist at all. But I’m pressing on!

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    1. I’ll put it to you this way, I’m not earning as much as you and you’ve only been on it a few weeks and I was homeless in 2017 and I am a disabled veteran struggling just to eat. Very soon though I’ll be able to start paying it forward but I found it very rude that you responded to everyone but me…. Like why? I was genuinely happy for you that your campaign seems to be thriving in the very short weeks it’s been there. And from one human to another who is struggling, I thought honest feedback was okay. Apparently not. I’ll wish you well and be on my way and never return…

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      1. Hi Poe, I’m sorry I couldn’t get back to you immediately. I have a lot on my plate right now but that is not an excuse. I know how tough it was, and I sincerely apologize. It won’t happen again.

        As a way of apologizing, is there anything I could help you with? I would be glad to help you. I really feel bad about the situation.

        I apologize.


      2. No, it’s okay Poe… I’m having a really hard time too right now. I feel like no one is listening to me, that’s why I understand how you feel. And I hated myself for making you feel the way other people is making me feel. I really am sorry. If you needed anything please, I would be glad to help. Again, I’m really sorry.


      3. I really need to take a social media detox and I’ve been failing at it! But then it also doesn’t help that I’m trying to take it during my favorite month. I’m sorry for my outcry. I feel rejected and segregated in the blogging community.

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