TMI Tuesday #89

Quick update: I’ve gathered 45,276 PHP as of today. I’d like to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I’m still a long way to go, but I appreciate the outpouring support I’ve been getting lately. On behalf of my daughter, my mom, and my siblings, thank you! 

Now that we got that out of the way let’s get ongoing to this week’s TMI.

How important is a religion in your life?

I’m born catholic, turned atheist, turned agnostic, and lately, I found myself praying a lot. I can’t say I’m religious, but I can say that I’m a spiritual person. Religion is such a touchy subject and I hate discussing it. What I will say is that, who am I to say what things do exist and what doesn’t. I will not be arrogant to disprove something I know nothing of. So to answer the question, it’s not that important. As long as you are a good person, both to yourself and to others, then it is not important to me. 

How often do you use pornography?

Used to, but not much lately. If you’ve been paying close attention to this blog, then you are well aware that I’m facing a huge financial crisis. I’d rather spend the time trying to fix the situation and come up with an answer. I can’t or I won’t rest until this is over. With that said, I ain’t gonna lie about my porn consumption. There is a time for everything and right now I can’t afford it. 

Before I answer the next question, I would like to say a few words. In case you still haven’t heard, I started a fundraising campaign a few weeks ago. It was an effort to save my mom’s house from getting repossessed by the bank. While it would be irresponsible to assume that we could pay the bank on donations alone, we also can’t do it on our own. We are doing our best to earn the money we need but there is no way we could come up with that kind of money in a short amount of time. I know things are difficult right now, not just to us, but to the rest of the world as well. But if you could be so kind as to help us out, we would sure be grateful for it. Here are the ways on how to help:

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With that said, I would like to extend my gratitude to a handful of people for supporting me in this ordeal. May more blessings come your way, you truly a one of a kind. Thank you!

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Do you feel your religion restricts sexual behavior?

I don’t know about a religious person but show me a spiritual person who doesn’t like to fuck? Does your religion have to restrict your sexuality? I mean, yeah, there are sexual acts that are downright wrong but religion has nothing to do with it. It depends on the moral construct of a person. As I’ve said before, just because you could don’t mean you should. 

Is your participation in sex, of any kind, tempered because of your own religious beliefs? 

Nothing I could think of. Sex, above all else, should be consensual. If it’s not consensual, then it is abuse. No means No, and that is the only thing that should matter. I ain’t going to judge a person based on their bedroom antics, as long as it is consensual and not in any way illegal. Again, religious belief or creed has nothing to do with it. 

Can you be kinky and practice religion?

I don’t see why the hell not. As long as it is safe, sane, and consensual, I don’t see why you shouldn’t. Be aware of the risk and stay safe. In my two years of blogging, I’ve made friends with a lot of people from all walks of life. One thing I’ve learned is to exercise good judgment and learn to see things from their perspective. I won’t say I don’t judge, because there are plenty of bloggers out there that would make you scratch your head. But I won’t judge someone based on sexuality alone. 

Bonus: Are you aspiring to anything?

Aspiring, besides having the means to solve my problems? I’d like to someday publish a book. Yeah, I want my book to be on the shelves of a bookstore. I want people who doubted me to see I’ve made it. I want to do a book signing, I want to sign my name in the most lavish of all fountain pens. I want to wear a 3-piece bespoke charcoal gray suit with a hot pink lining. I want to wear Marikina’s finest double monk strap shoe in oxblood. I want my daughter to sit in one of those book signings and wonder why the hell they are asking me to sign their book. I want to take my mother to one without knowing what the event is and why I am all dressed up. I want to see the expression on her face when she sees my name. Maybe that’s not how book signing goes, but if I were to dream might as well reach for the stars, right? I want everyone who never doubted me to be proud of what I’ve achieved. 

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3 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday #89

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  1. There is a huge gap between mainstream traditional religion and true spirituality.
    More often than not traditional religions turn out to be the exact opposite of the original teachings


  2. How important is religion in your life?

    Only as much as it teaches me about the history of human nature and consciousness.

    How often do you use pornography?

    Since I’ve discovered my wife is asexual, as often as I need to just to make sure the damn thing still works.

    Do you feel your religion restricts sexual behavior?

    Well, “my religion” (which I don’t practice) restricts sexual activity to procreation. Anything else is just keeps you mucked-up in attachment to the material world.

    Is your participation in sex, of any kind, tempered because of your own religious beliefs? 

    No. I used to feel guilty about it long ago but it takes too much energy.

    Can you be kinky and practice religion?

    One man’s kink might be another man’s ritual. I’m guessing religion invented quite a few kinks, accidentally.

    Bonus: Are you aspiring to anything?

    Aging as gracefully as I can.

    btw, left a tip in your PayPal account. I hope you’re able to save you mother’s house. Good luck.


  3. This is a time when we all need prayer. I believe there has never been a more important time to prayer for all people, our leaders who ever they are, as that is what the Bible tells us to do and to be faithful to him. God will answer prayers. Love and prayers coming to you and your entire family. Love ❤️ Joni

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