What’s Your Favorite Flavor of Shit Sandwich? (Tolerating Her Leads To Resentment)

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Sometimes to define something, you have to define what it is not. The lack of definition sometimes causes life to be miserable. The subject of both masculine and feminine essence is a touchy subject for most. Both men and women however different are equal, no gender is better than the other. If you find it sexist, don’t read it, if you find it misogynistic, don’t read it. I want to give men something to think about but at the end of the day all I want for you is to be well. Again, women have the power to do anything they want yet this blog is written by a man for other men.

As a man, I’m all for tolerance. I tolerate pain, hardships, change. What would we become as a species if we can’t tolerate each other? Yet, I will tell you that life and women are hard. They are both fantastic and wonderful yet difficult. I pity any man who chooses an easy life and an easy woman. 


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In this complicated modern times, tolerance is a virtue. With that said, a man cannot go on life tolerating everything or he is at risk of unhappiness. Of course, he could choose a life free of wants and live a hermit’s life but I don’t think that is an option for most of us. So, the only question that remains is, what’s your favorite flavor of shit sandwich? Where do you draw the line?

I have already told you how to manage your expectations in your relationship. I have told you how to have a constructive outlook on your woman. I even told you how to deal with her without changing her foundations as a woman. Today, I want to talk about where you draw the line and why it is important to you as a man. 

The whole point of intimacy is to serve each other in growth and love. If not, then what is even the point of intimacy? If you find yourself tolerating your woman for whatever reason, then I’m afraid I got some bad news for you. You will end up resenting her if you aren’t already. This resentment will not only make you unhappy but you are also making her miserable. You are depriving her of a chance to be with someone who could appreciate her. Yes, it will hurt both of you but it will also set you both free. Free from resentment and open for other opportunities. 

A man must learn to take the good with the bad, and the bad with the good but he must also know where to draw the line. The thing is, nothing in life is perfect. Your woman is as imperfect as you are. Knowing what your favorite shit sandwich sorts out all the fuzz in a relationship. For me, I cannot choose a woman who didn’t choose me. It may sound noble to love a woman like that but despite my best effort, I cannot compete with happiness. 

Sometimes to define something, you need to define what it is not. Sometimes you have to know your dislikes before you know what you like. We men tend to go all out and limits are crucial to prevent us from jumping off the metaphorical cliff that is life. What about you? What’s your favorite shit sandwich?

To courage and freedom, and women!

“This whole goddam house stinks of ghosts. I don’t mind so much being haunted by a dead ghost, but I resent like hell being haunted by a half-dead one.”
― J.D Salinger

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8 thoughts on “What’s Your Favorite Flavor of Shit Sandwich? (Tolerating Her Leads To Resentment)

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  1. Dear Mr. A.,
    I loved your post today even though you were writing to men, and I obviously am not one 😁
    I would like to add that we have karmic relationships that both men and women learn from and they serve a greater purpose then to make each other miserable.
    Also in choosing a woman who already has chosen you is a safe bet. 😁
    I am not being facetious, this is likely the beginning of a lasting relationship.
    Sending you lots of love ❤️

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  2. The Greatest Love
    Is When You Don’t
    FeeL iT And Do It
    The Kind of
    Love my Wife Had
    Living With A Shut-in
    Zombie For 66 Months
    This is the Love
    You never
    Leave Behind
    This the Love
    Greater
    Than
    Nails Hung
    On Crosses
    Heroes only
    Known to God
    And those they Save..
    When We See We All
    Are God Patience
    More
    Than
    Twitter
    Breaths Long..
    Life is a Sh8t
    Sandwich
    With Crazy 8’s..
    Heroes
    Myth
    Hero Real…
    That’s my Wife..:)

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  3. I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on one of the purposes of intimacy: “service to each other in growth and love.” The importance of both tolerance, yet also setting healthy boundaries for what makes you and others happy and well.

    Sometimes people can hang on so tightly, not realizing when it can be suffocating to their partners. Letting go can be such an important lesson for personal growth.

    “…You are depriving her of a chance to be with someone who could appreciate her. Yes, it will hurt both of you but it will also set you both free. Free from resentment and open for other opportunities.” This is something I hope many men can learn. 🙂

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  4. That part about tolerating her leading to resentment… dead on. It can definitely go both ways. I’ve never lived it, life is too short for that, but I’ve seen it. Many times. Too many. Never ends well. Great post!

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