What’s It Like To Date Mr. A (A No Holds Barred Interview)

Greetings Barbarians! Long days and pleasant nights!

I have a treat for you! A few weeks back, I was lying in bed and a fun idea came to me. Instead of the usual me telling you about me, why not tell you about me from a different perspective? So I asked Pancake If I could do a no holds barred Q&A with her and she agreed. 

As you all know, I’m dating someone right now. We’ve met on a dating app (of all places) and we’ve been seeing each other for more than a year. Please give a round of applause to Pancake!

Mr. A: Darling, mind introducing yourself?

Pancake: Hi guys! I am so excited to be here! So, if you have followed this page, you may see my name here and there. I am Pancake, and I have been dating Mr. A here for almost 2 years now.

Mr. A: So, how is the lockdown there?

Pancake: Cabin fever is real! But, it’s for our safety anyway. And! We’re almost at the end of it, so I’m enjoying staying in with the family for now

Mr. A: I know, I hope this will be all over soon. I can’t wait to see you. So, for our reader’s sake, mind telling us a few fun facts about you?

Pancake: I can’t wait to see you too. Hmm fun facts.. alright, let’s do random stuff here. I love books, I prefer my coffee black with a bit of sugar, I get sleepy when I’m nervous, I burp when I’m hungry, and I dream of visiting Croatia!

Mr. A: Good to know! Hmm, vital stats (devilish grin)?

Pancake: Standing 5’2″ (proud Filipina here), 34-27-36 (devilish grin back at yah)

Mr. A: Lucky me!

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Mr. A: What’s it like to date me?

Pancake: It is an adventure! As you know, you’re the first person I’ve dated, so it’s all about learning. Learning about me, about you. And all those with a bit of spice here and there

Mr. A: No regrets so far?

Pancake: I was thinking, the distance? LDR is not easy. But even that is working to our advantage while we do our life project.

Mr. A: I agree, Long distance relationships are hard work. Am I as charming and dashing in real life compared to my online persona?

Pancake: Yes, and more? I am coming from the perspective that since I know you personally, I have that certain kind of understanding of how your works are made. So for me, it’s seeing the process and the finished product. Both are beautiful.

Mr. A: That’s nice. I always find ways to set me apart but I’m always conscious about what I say here. Do you find my TMIs annoying? You know oversharing some stuff.

Pancake: Hell no! They’re my fave! One thing I love about it is that it can be daring, but not obscene. Yes, some may be of high sexual content, but it still has this air of respect. Gentlemanly!

Mr. A: Well, I’m very sexual and I could be daring at times. What’s it like to date a blogger?

Pancake: An adventure! It may be ironic since blogging may be seen as writing and reading, but being with you showed me a world of introspection, understanding, reality spiced up with dreams and fantasies.

Mr. A: Speaking, what are your thoughts about that sexy blogging idea we had?

Pancake: I’m kinda excited about it. Something new, I’m sure I’ll be discovering things about myself, and what makes it better is that I’ll get to do it with you.

Mr. A: So it’s something you see in the future?

Pancake: It is somehow scary, but yes!

Mr. A: That got me excited! What makes you stick around despite my situation, being a poor unemployed solo dad?

Pancake: You. Sure circumstances are not ideal at the moment, but to be with someone who has dreams and works hard for it is way more than a fat bank account. It shows me what kind of future could be in store for me, for us. And I guess I believe in your dreams too

Mr. A: What do you like the most about me?

Pancake: Time New Roman in the streets, Windings in the sheets! 😉 On a serious note, you’re real. And I’ve told you this, you’re not prince charming. You’re the author who created prince charming

Mr. A: What do you hate the most about me?

Pancake: Hmm you tend to pull away when you’re upset then you’d go quiet.

Mr. A: Well it’s better to keep quiet than to say things I will regret later. 

Pancake: I guess you’re right.

Mr. A: Is there something you wish that I should stop doing?

Pancake: Hmm.. every time you mention or think about not winning. Rest if you must, but never believe you will not win.

Mr. A: I’m a paradox, I can be satisfied to a degree to feel it counts but not satisfied enough not to stop working. That mindset is critical if you wanna reach the top. What physical part of me are you most attracted to?

Pancake: It’s difficult to choose! But I’d say eyes and lips

Mr. A: I’ve always hated my lips. I thought you said you like my shoulder more?

Pancake: Actually, the choices were eyes, lips, shoulders, and forearm 🙂

Mr. A: Now we’re talking! How am I in bed?

Pancakes: Well, you leave me breathless and with jelly knees. You mark deep in me and make me long for you more.

Mr. A: Ohhh that sounds nice! Should we tell them that we’re on Fetlife?

Pancake: You just did!

Mr. A: I’m messing with y’all! Any final words to my readers?

Pancake: Well, thanks very much guys for spending time with us today. I enjoyed my time with you all. Let’s continue supporting our Mr. A and his blogs, shall we? Keep safe everyone!

Mr. A: Thank you for giving some time to my readers! I’m gonna be seeing you soon!

Udon with Pancake

So, there you have it, a very special interview with Pancake! I hope it sheds some light on some mysteries surrounding me as a person. I hope you had a great time reading it because we did. Feel free to comment down below if you have any questions for Pancake! Don’t forget to check out my Patreon page.

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14 thoughts on “What’s It Like To Date Mr. A (A No Holds Barred Interview)

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  1. Happy to meet you Pancake. Mr. A., thank you for you and this introduction to your girl. Sending love to both of you. emoji heart goes here.

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  2. That’s a great way to post. We do it too, but not with the names every sentence… I guess we could try sometime!
    Thanks you!
    Maomi & Rex

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  3. A fun interview! May I ask, which app you met on? My son is doing the dating app thing (has been for awhile) and I am always curious which dating apps have been successful and maybe any you found to be less than helpful? 😉

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      1. Hi A, yah it’s been a while and I miss it too being myself again! My phone broke and my laptop is not working, and the kids are everywhere. Aside from that, I feel great and thankful.


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