Never Change Your Mind Because a Woman Said So…

Greeting Barbarians! Long days and pleasant nights!

It may come to you as shocking, but I am not the easiest man to be with and to be honest, I’m quite difficult. I’m stubborn as hell, not that I choose to; I just happen to know what I want. I let my wisdom dictate my action and let experience be my mentor.

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Now, back to my stubborness…

Does that make me a terrible partner? I don’t know, but I do know that I cherish women. Do I mistreat them? I don’t think so, as they are the most precious people in my life. I listen, I just don’t change my mind just because they told me to.

Always keep an open ear and mind to your woman, but never change your mind because she said so. The thing is, your woman will always attempt to test you whether is it intentional or not. She will often challenge your resolve to know if she could relax in your capacity for love.

Appreciate what she was saying but remember that your mission always comes first. Don’t throw away your lifelong lessons because of what she says, a woman will always be driven by her emotions. Seek to understand her instead.

The thing is, there is no such thing as an easy relationship. It is hard work and requires a lot of compromises. A woman’s want is not content free; often, what she wants is not what it seems. When she asked you to throw out the trash, she doesn’t mean she wants to you do it but rather trust that you would do it. What she wants is the opportunity to relax in your capacity.

Let’s say that the world is in grave danger and it’s up to you to save it, but your woman insists you to stay in bed and make love. Of course, you’ll choose to save the world no matter how comfortable the warmth of a woman is. What do you think will happen if you choose otherwise?

Understand what she is saying, but don’t compromise your realizations in life. No one likes a man that could be swayed to change their minds on a simple whim. Do you think your woman would love you more if she knew that even a subtle suggestion could change your mind? I don’t think so.

I’d be honest, this will make you seem stubborn or pig-headed but there is no other way. A firm resolve is much better than a fickle mind. Women want a man they can depend on when things go bad, a man who doesn’t crumble under pressure.

This may raise some eyebrows from my female readers, and I would like to hear your thoughts on this. Women like men who are confident with themselves and their abilities. A man who follows his wisdom but also knows how to accept his mistakes and learn from it. As I said, women want a man with a great capacity for love, and they sure can sense doubt in your heart. What they want is for them to relax in a man’s love.

So, if you’re having some lady problems, you should ask yourself “Do I have what it takes?”.


“I may be wrong in regard to any or all of them; but holding it a sound maxim, that it is better to be only sometimes right, than at all times wrong, so soon as I discover my opinions to be erroneous, I shall be ready to renounce them.”
― Abraham Lincoln, Speeches and Writings 1832–1858

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  1. I think that the opposite also applies. Men complain constantly about the fickleness of women. The question is, if neither changes their mind because of what the other says how do differences get resolved?

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    1. Hi Gemmi! Glad to hear your thoughts!

      I think men shouldn’t complain in the first place. Complaining about the fickleness of women is like complaining about what makes them great. As I said, women are driven by their emotions, when they are happy they sing, when they are sad they eat icecream. Such emotions make women, great.

      Men, on the other hand, are driven by their actions. What they do is what they will feel. If they do fulfilling things they will feel fulfilled and etc. That’s why I think men cannot afford to be swayed because there is plenty of work that needs to be done.

      As for resolving differences, I think men should embrace the fickleness of a woman and at the same time be someone they could depend on to take out the trash so that they don’t have to.

      But those are just my 2 cents of the matter and I hope I made sense to you.

      Cheers and more power Gemmi! 🍸 😊


  2. I had to read this because of the title… My immediate response to the title was…You should always be prepared to change your mind and never because of gender… I have a quote for this..

    Many people will offer advice on what you should believe or do. Politely but firmly reject any advice you have carefully considered before. But if the advice is new, be prepared to reevaluate your thinking. Don’t allow appearing to have been wrong, to get in the way of actually being right. ~ Xtac Quote

    Who you listen is anyone and everyone. Your friends, relations, trusted folk, enemies, even children (out of the mouths of babes). you never know who will provide a new thought, a new perspective to include in your evaluations.

    === ===
    Then you dove into women and what they want.. I’ll give you a quote for that as well.. Men want a good girl who is only naughty with them, and Women want a bad boy who is always nice to them.

    Great blog!

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    1. I know right! The thing is, men dont need to agree and change his mind all the time. But he does need to keep an open mind about things. Just because I said “never change your mind” doesn’t mean I’m telling other men to be stubborn. Men just have different experiences in life than women, unless they are raised as women.


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