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It may come to you as shocking, but I am not the easiest man to be with and to be honest, I’m quite difficult. I’m stubborn as hell, not that I choose to; I just happen to know what I want. I let my wisdom dictate my action and let experience be my mentor.
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Now, back to my stubborness…
Does that make me a terrible partner? I don’t know, but I do know that I cherish women. Do I mistreat them? I don’t think so, as they are the most precious people in my life. I listen, I just don’t change my mind just because they told me to.
Always keep an open ear and mind to your woman, but never change your mind because she said so. The thing is, your woman will always attempt to test you whether is it intentional or not. She will often challenge your resolve to know if she could relax in your capacity for love.
Appreciate what she was saying but remember that your mission always comes first. Don’t throw away your lifelong lessons because of what she says, a woman will always be driven by her emotions. Seek to understand her instead.
The thing is, there is no such thing as an easy relationship. It is hard work and requires a lot of compromises. A woman’s want is not content free; often, what she wants is not what it seems. When she asked you to throw out the trash, she doesn’t mean she wants to you do it but rather trust that you would do it. What she wants is the opportunity to relax in your capacity.
Let’s say that the world is in grave danger and it’s up to you to save it, but your woman insists you to stay in bed and make love. Of course, you’ll choose to save the world no matter how comfortable the warmth of a woman is. What do you think will happen if you choose otherwise?
Understand what she is saying, but don’t compromise your realizations in life. No one likes a man that could be swayed to change their minds on a simple whim. Do you think your woman would love you more if she knew that even a subtle suggestion could change your mind? I don’t think so.
I’d be honest, this will make you seem stubborn or pig-headed but there is no other way. A firm resolve is much better than a fickle mind. Women want a man they can depend on when things go bad, a man who doesn’t crumble under pressure.
This may raise some eyebrows from my female readers, and I would like to hear your thoughts on this. Women like men who are confident with themselves and their abilities. A man who follows his wisdom but also knows how to accept his mistakes and learn from it. As I said, women want a man with a great capacity for love, and they sure can sense doubt in your heart. What they want is for them to relax in a man’s love.
So, if you’re having some lady problems, you should ask yourself “Do I have what it takes?”.
To COURAGE and FREEDOM, and WOMEN!
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