After a few weeks out, I’m back!
Let’s start the week right with a TMI.
What makes you insecure?
I may not look like it, I’m struggling in my finances and in raising a daughter. During school affairs, I often feel out of place due to the fact the I’m separated, a solo parent, and unemployed. Thou I still try to socialize and try to get myself out there and do an okay job. I remember how difficult it was telling other people that I’m separated.
What do you expect from a romantic love relationship?
Lots and lots of sex! I don’t see myself in a sexless relationship, if it’s going to be stressful then I don’t see the point in being in one. Maybe that makes me someone difficult to be with, but I have other things that I should focus on. I dislike having to explain myself too much; not that I don’t like drama, I don’t like when it’s uncalled for.
What do you expect from a friendship?
I have learned to manage my expectations of people over the years and try to understand as much as I could. The thing is, other people have a journey of their own and sometimes their journey contradict ours and it’s fine. That doesn’t mean they are bad people; they just have a different set of values. I have a high expectation of myself while managing my expectations on others.
What do you expect from a Friends-with-Benefits situation?
Same as my expectations from a romantic relationship, lots of sex. Thou I’d be honest; I don’t see any of my female friends having sex with me – I don’t see anyone wanting to sleep with me for that matter. Another thing about me is that I don’t see friends as “friends” anymore when sex is involved.
What expectations do you have for yourself?
Like I said, I hold a high expectation of myself according to the values I uphold myself to. I value strength, I cannot tolerate myself for being weak in any aspect. I cannot tolerate myself for crying, complaining, and for being critical. I value wisdom, I cannot tolerate myself being stupid, gullible and naïve. Lastly, I value progress; I cannot tolerate myself for being stuck at a moment. I prefer progress over perfection, I have an urge to keep on moving. With that said, I’m also not the kind to take himself too seriously. I laugh at my own mistakes and try again next time.
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