- When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?
Once, I dated someone who does not like me using the word “fuck”. It kinda messed up my head, that I started to walk on eggshells. I really like this person, but I couldn’t seem to overcome it. I think that’s when the relationship went downhill.
- How do you like to reconnect with your significant other?
I’m not sure if reconnect is the right term here, since pancake and I were never disconnected in the first place. But I really enjoy having a conversation with her, from the more serious and profound of talks down to the downright silly and ridiculous of jokes.
- “It isn’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it.” How do you like to be done?
Of course, always with full awareness and free will. I really don’t like when something is done, and they do it because of me or because I wanted it. I don’t like it when something feels more like a favor rather than a gift.
- If you are married, were you ready for marriage?
Well, the first time I did it didn’t end so well. I guess you could say that I’m not ready, but I’m willing to work it out. I think the other party isn’t, I really do not know the answer to that and I’m not wondering about it either.
- If you are not married, are you ready for it? What makes you say that?
Maybe I am, I mean life is never easy but I’m still managing to make the best out of it. But personally, I’d rather not do it again.
Bonus: “It’s complicated.” In what way does this describe your current (or most recent) relationship?
The romantic relationship is not complicated, but being a solo dad is. Being a solo parent to a child who felt abandoned by the other parent is difficult. There is a lot of reassurance to be done in order for her to feel less abandoned. A child who is afraid to be put aside or worst, be left behind. That is why I choose my romantic relationships carefully.
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